I don’t care what you think about me. I don’t think about you at all. – Coco Channel
Wednesday, 31 October 2012
Society is pretty ugly & disgusting, so FUCK it
Media has many things to do with the way people react. It has a
bigger influence that one can imagine. It also works in different ways and
people accept it without really realising it. This post focuses mainly on
people who has never felt pretty and also by writing this post im trying to
convince myself to stop paying attention to what people have to say or think
about me.
What most people do not realise is that ugly or pretty, fat or skinny, heterosexuals or homosexuals & so on, these are just labels and besides all these we are all human beings with feelings just like them. Dear society you should stop being so judgemental and think before talking, after-all no one likes to be hurt so what’s the point of doing it? God did not see any mistake in us so who are you to come and judge?
To all the outsiders, society is doomed, we won’t be able to change a thing about that, but what we can do is to stand and accept ourselves as we are. When we believe without knowing we believe that we are damaged at our core, we also believe that we need to hide that damage for anyone to love us. We walk around ashamed of being ourselves. We try hard to make up for the way we look, walk, feel just to please people. Decisions are agonizing because if we, the person who makes the decision, are damaged, then how can we trust what we decide? We doubt our own impulses so we become masterful at looking outside ourselves for comfort.
What most people do not realise is that ugly or pretty, fat or skinny, heterosexuals or homosexuals & so on, these are just labels and besides all these we are all human beings with feelings just like them. Dear society you should stop being so judgemental and think before talking, after-all no one likes to be hurt so what’s the point of doing it? God did not see any mistake in us so who are you to come and judge?
To all the outsiders, society is doomed, we won’t be able to change a thing about that, but what we can do is to stand and accept ourselves as we are. When we believe without knowing we believe that we are damaged at our core, we also believe that we need to hide that damage for anyone to love us. We walk around ashamed of being ourselves. We try hard to make up for the way we look, walk, feel just to please people. Decisions are agonizing because if we, the person who makes the decision, are damaged, then how can we trust what we decide? We doubt our own impulses so we become masterful at looking outside ourselves for comfort.
We become experts at
striving and trying harder and harder to change ourselves, but this process
only reaffirms what we already believe about ourselves; that our needs and
choices cannot be trusted, and left to our own devices we are out of control. What
im trying to say is that we are trying to change what we really are just to fit
a crooked society and by doing so we forget that We are not a mistake
and we are not a problem to be solved!
I am grateful though that I have friends and families who do not judge me from the outside but accept me for the inside. I feel the love with those people around me and they are the one who actually give me the strength to face society. On an ending note;
"To all the girls that think you're ugly because you're not a size 0, you're the beautiful one. It's society who's ugly" Marilyn Monroe
I am grateful though that I have friends and families who do not judge me from the outside but accept me for the inside. I feel the love with those people around me and they are the one who actually give me the strength to face society. On an ending note;
"To all the girls that think you're ugly because you're not a size 0, you're the beautiful one. It's society who's ugly" Marilyn Monroe
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